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the final countdown

May 9, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

I’m in the final stretch on the way to so many things that are looming…

Less than a week until Mother’s Day, a holiday that’s become a mix of beautiful and sadness all rolled into one these past couple of years.

Less than a month until I have to leave Baby Girl and go back to work, with her starting daycare and me trying to maneuver the “fifth trimester” with the added stress of a NJ-to-NYC commute this time.

Less than half a year until I begin a new decade (AKA my birthday). I might not be feeling this one so much if it wasn’t for the silver strands that keep appearing around my part-line, reminding me it’s fast-approaching.

So much change, whether I like it or not.

For now, I’m enjoying every second of the “now”. Every cuddle I can get. While I could put her down to nap and go do the dishes or cleanup around the house, you’ll almost always find me curled up with her in my arms on the couch.

Just because I can.

Just because she loves it just as much as I do.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Motherhood, Parenting, Reflection

surviving mother’s day

May 5, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

We are here again. Mother’s Day. This year, I’m really trying to focus on my kids and the honor of being their mother. And of course, I’m thinking extra about my mama.

I’ve been having a hard time really writing — whether that’s journaling or long-form writing. The main thing I have been doing is writing here, albeit sporadically. This week, I’m trying to pick back up journaling, using the below list of writing prompts to do so. Even if your loved one is still living, I’ve decided journals like this will be so wonderful to share with our children to get to know their family even better.

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Filed Under: Life, Parenting Tagged With: Family, Mother's Day, On Writing, Parenting, Writing Prompts

date night at summit house

May 3, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

It has been a few weeks since we went, but I can’t stop thinking about our dinner at Summit House in Summit, New Jersey. A night out with just us two always feels like a treat but even more so when we are able to find a restaurant at Manhattan quality closer to home.

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Filed Under: Food, Restaurants Tagged With: Date night, New Jersey, Restaurants

6 ways to make a difference this earth day

April 22, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

This is the first day I’m experiencing Earth Day from the comfort of my own home. Usually there’s an internal note as to what our offices are doing with some opting to celebrate Earth Hour by going lights off, others planting gardens either on or off property or volunteering locally with a park cleanup effort.

Nothing makes you think about waste than watching your household double in less than three years — meaning more trash along the way. Here are some easy things we have been doing that may help give you some ideas to consider.

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music and kids

April 12, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

Q was several weeks old (maybe a month or more) before I realized I’d never played him music. At all. Closest thing would have been the Gilmore Girls theme song due to the marathon I’d been doing in advance of the release of the new episodes. In the midst of those super sleep deprived early days, I hadn’t even thought about it. It was ironic, too, since music is so important to both myself and my husband.

I spent my early years in church musicals. I went to college on a music scholarship for flute and also play the piano and (once upon a time) the violin. T was in musicals over the years in both high school and college. We’ve gone to a number of musicals and concerts together over the years. I even worked doing social media promotions for concerts, both for several years as part of my day job. Music is clearly a big part of who we both are – and something that, if we had been more aware of it, we would have began introducing to Q starting with his time in the womb.

Once we became aware of it, we started to think about how we could add music into our routine with Q. We were super aware of avoiding screen time before he was born, so instead of turning on the TV for background noise, we started occasionally opting for Spotify or a CD instead. We even bought a record player so we can begin to make music more of a shared experience for our family. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Music, Parenting Tagged With: Family, kids, music, soundtrack

all the sweets at bovella’s

April 8, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

It’s pretty obvious if you’ve been following this blog for a while, but I love desserts. Sweets are my weakness. When we moved out of New York City, I wasn’t sure I’d find anything at the same level of some of Manhattan’s gems. Thankfully I was wrong!

There are two different locations for Bovella’s – one in Westfield and one in Mountainside. The newest one is in Mountainside but I have a special soft spot for the Westfield location as it’s the one I used to visit with my mom when we wanted to get away for a sweet treat.

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Filed Under: Food, Restaurants Tagged With: Bakery, New Jersey, Restaurants

lazy dairy-free: getting started

March 27, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

I never realized just how much I love milk until recently I found myself forced to go dairy-free. However, I love my daughter so much more so said let’s do this.

I started off with a trip to Whole Foods to see what sort of dairy-free options they have readily available (note the ghee in the photo above is not dairy free – someone led me astray on that one so ignore that!). And I learned just how many things have dairy in them. Who knew? Things like certain types of:

  • Bread
  • Spices
  • Single serving oatmeal
  • Baking mixes (pancakes, cakes, breads, etc)
  • Deli meat
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date night at the south street seaport

February 13, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

It had been ages since T and I had done a date night in the city, so when he proposed an evening down there and a bit of shopping for my Christmas present, I jumped at the opportunity. I was off that Friday, so went into the city by late afternoon so we could make the most of our time down at the South Street Seaport.

We started with a visit to the SJP boutique, the first US permanent location for Sarah Jessica Parker’s shoe line. It was a bit after 3PM so we had the store to ourselves for a bit. I was super pregnant at the time so hadn’t worn nice heels in quite some time, so it was so fun to peruse their options and feel fancy for a bit. I can’t say enough wonderful things about the staff. They patiently let me try on lots of different options and sizes (shoes get tricky post-pregnancy!) as I tried to narrow down my choice. I ended up with these beautiful slightly netted option with a touch of sparkle – wearable in the office yet just a touch of bling for my feet. Perfection.

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Filed Under: Fashion, Food, Restaurants, Style

post-partum amazon faves

February 8, 2019 by Lara Leave a Comment

After returning from the hospital I was reminded of just how many different things I need in the post-partum period than during maternity. Thankfully I stashed some of my extras from Q, but I found myself scrambling to get a bunch of others. Thank goodness for Amazon, where I was able to quickly order a number of things I realized I needed. Below are some of my favorites. For the full list to easily peruse, visit here on Amazon.

Bassinet

Last time, we did a Pack ‘n Play which was useful for us to have in general (I think buying one of these would always be useful), but was less successful when it came to Q and sleeping. It made too much of a rustling sound as he tossed and turned in it. This time, we wanted something pretty simple and lightweight. This Fisher-Price bassinet has worked well for us and little L loves the soothing music it plays (use of it is optional) and I love that it has a soft nightlight that comes on when touched. And the material along the bottom is super easy to clean following those inevitable spit-ups.

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Filed Under: Fashion, Life, Parenting, Style Tagged With: Amazon, Mom Life, Post-partum, Style

welcome baby girl z

February 1, 2019 by Lara 14 Comments

Last Friday, I had quite the to-do list since my gut aligned with my doctor’s prediction — that Baby Girl wasn’t likely to wait until her February 8th due date to make her appearance. A handful were things I really wanted to accomplish for work and the others were miscellaneous things around the house I really wanted to knock out before she joined us. Friday definitely didn’t go to plan…

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Filed Under: Life, Parenting Tagged With: Motherhood, Parenting

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